I decided to put up my Pisces husband's chart this month for all you synastry buffs. We are in our 51st year of marriage and our 29th year of living together 24/7. He retired in 1985. It's interesting to me that his Sun falls in my 3rd House and my Sun falls in his 3rd house. I think we were probably battling siblings in our past life
His Saturn is on my Mars in opposition to my Sun and my Saturn is within conjunction of his Sun/Uranus/Moon. So we both have a lot to learn in this incarnation and lots of karmic debts.
Just as my T-square between Venus = Jupiter/Pluto and Moon oppose Saturn speak about my marriage, his YOD pattern Sun sextile Mars = Neptune opposite Asc/Venus/Jupiter speak about his.
Interestingly enough, in 1978 I went through a group regression with Buzz Meyers and I saw myself as a Chinese executioner who had a female concubine, servant, slave or wife (my husband) and he (I) amputated her head with my sword in a drunken tantram. I've never forgotten that one! Such is life!